My Advice for Girls Torn Between an Escort Job and a Relationship
7 months ago
My Advice for Girls Torn Between an Escort Job and a Relationship
Hello, my lovely ones!
I hope you’re all doing well 🙂 Thank you for reading my blog—it means so much to me. And yes, I know my writing might have some grammar mistakes. I worry that if I let someone fix them, it might change the meaning of what I want to say. So, for now, this is how it will stay.
The Dilemma: Love or Career?
Many girls face this tricky decision: should they pursue a career as an escort or settle down in a relationship? While the choice is entirely yours, I’d like to share my observations and opinions based on what I’ve seen and heard from others in similar situations.
Imagine this scenario: while working as an escort, you meet a guy who’s attracted to your independence, confidence, and ability to make your own choices. But then, you decide to give up your career for him, becoming more dependent and adjusting your life around his needs.
What happens next? From what I’ve seen, these relationships often change for the worse. Misunderstandings and resentment creep in, and the dynamic shifts. Many girls who gave up their independence end up regretting it. They lose valuable time, money, and opportunities they could have enjoyed during their prime years.
The Risk of Losing Your Dignity
In some cases, the guy who once admired your strength and autonomy starts treating you differently. Instead of support, you might face criticism, complaints, or even insults. Contrast that with the escort industry, where clients generally treat girls with respect and admiration. Clients value your time, never belittle you, and always leave you feeling appreciated.
On the other hand, the girls who choose relationships over work often face financial struggles and emotional stress. They find themselves caught up in petty arguments or trying to please someone who may not value their sacrifices. Meanwhile, they miss out on golden years when they could have been earning money, building their future, and enjoying life to the fullest.
Why Not Both?
Here’s an alternative perspective: why not enjoy relationships as an escort? Many girls build meaningful connections with clients who genuinely value and respect them. When a client pays for your time, it’s a sign of appreciation and acknowledgment of your worth.
If a client falls in love with you, he might even show his commitment financially—perhaps paying for an entire year in advance! In such cases, you can explore a relationship while maintaining your independence and dignity. And if the relationship ends, you part ways with financial security and without regret, because your time and efforts were respected.
The Bottom Line
Life is too short to sacrifice your dreams, independence, and opportunities for anyone who doesn’t truly value you. You deserve to build your own destiny, free from dependence or humiliation.
While relationships may seem tempting, always weigh the risks and rewards. True respect and love shouldn’t require you to give up who you are or what you’ve worked for.
To all my beautiful girls: love yourself first, trust your instincts, and pursue the life that brings you happiness and success.
Sending you all my love and best wishes for success in everything you do!
With respect and admiration,
